When we cherish someone, we usually experiencing beyond our emotion towards someone we care.
Cherish is something we cannot express or reveal, is buried in our feelings.
About
Ms. Susan, is single mother with a child. In years back, she's married with a charming man, with a good family oriented. Unfortunately after 2 years of marriage, she finally decided to fill in a divorce to her husband after finding out that he was cheating on her.
Even though the divorce on process, the sweet memories she had with her ex husband couldn't let her forget how he cherish her. The memories she had with him is keeping on projected on her mind, as they walk thru life together.
After 2 years later, she found a man who has a bit similar to her ex husband, they get to know each other from online, they acquaintance was so good, he wanted to meet her, finally she agreed. He flew for many hours across the boarder. Just to meet her. Finally he arrived, they spend time together and shared thoughts. During long hours of chatting, they developed feeling for each other, wondering, participating and fall in love for the first time.
The experience is so much unreal but they both feel the same way. One thing about this man, she doesn't know about his real life background. What she knew, that he and his wife separated, they both reside in two different country and she also aware, that he own a company and wanted to search a good partner. As for him,"he choosen Susan to be her partner and also a lover. He has confident that they can achieve together.
Susan, was enthusiastic to work together with him, with this opportunity, she be able to changed her life and support her child expenses. This make her cherish him more, but unfortunately, she doesn't know what his real intention?
After half past year gone by, the desire working together make their business profitable, she thought that she will get fully supported from him when the income grows and he may employ assistance to help her on the other task but on contrary she only work for herself. She realized that nobody helping her. Unfortunately, she get exhausted due to many tasked that she need to settle within a week, while she was having a break, he call her to follow up the additional program that has been arranged. She couldn't exceed her limitation, unfortunately she couldn't refuse him. Susan has no choice to gone beyond her capabilities in order to achieve her ambition.
After days and months gone by, she no longer tolerated with this kind of nonsense, even though he supplying her with luxury life but in the same time, she has to work harder for him. She realized that she being use for the sake of his business even though they have equal shared but she cannot back off due to commitment she had, she couldn't even escape from his temptation offer to make her stay longer.
Conclusion
To cherish someone is to shared and carry the same burden. For Susan, she has being abuse by him even though she knew, she being use, but nevertheless, she wanted to changed her life in order to survive.
She has a good chance to changed her life by her own will, but she refuse due to lack of confident on her ability, that make her more vulnerable.
When we cherish someone, is better for us to know the person well and don't let other control your heart otherwise, you may fall into trap that no way to escape unless we have determination to say NO.
To love someone is not by escaping burden but to help and have same compassion for each other, then you will have significant balance in your relationships.
Thank you for reading my article, hope everyone have a lovely day
Peace n Love
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