JEALOUSY

Most people do have this mixed feelings of jealousy which program in their thoughts, probably one of them is your colleague, friends, unknown people, and even family members.

Have you ever wonder, where jealous come from?

Most of us define Jealous came from inner feelings which activates our vein sensor which connect to our mind by saying yes, I am JEALOUS.. but it is worth to be jealous? or it just like a humanoid from different dimension? (Oh... yes.. I am special one)

Human being usually get jealous when it come from people who didn't get what they want. For example Mick.

Mr. Mick, is a rich guy who lives in Las Vegas, he has two children with young beautiful wife call Ms Sandra. They live in a mansion of beautiful architectural design. Mr Mick, never stop searching for opportunity to make things best for his family and he always wanted to have a good lifestyle so that everyone in his family, friends and colleague will embrace him for his achievement.

One day, while he driving his SUV Lexus to work, he saw Tom," his neighbor, driving a bigger car than him, it's a SUV Mercedes. He feel awkward and totally disrespectful as they live in Mansion house with a little bit less expensive car than him. He wanted to show the guy, he can buy bigger and most expensive car. He told his wife, that he wish to buy a new car, but his wife disagree, she told him, "Why should you buy a new car? instead of buying, is better to save money for the kids educations?"  He feel undesirable worthless by sharing thoughts with his wife. However, his desired to pursuit new car won't stop him. He call his assistance Anna, to find better and bigger car which is sophisticated than his neighbor SUV Mercedes. What make him pursuing his need? it because the jealousy occupying his thoughts. He cannot let others be better than him, he feel unworthy. He need something to proved his better than anybody especially his competitor. Nothing can stop him by his own will.

One day Sandra, found out, that he receive so many car magazines from letter box, he asked Mick,"Since when you interested to buy all this car magazine?" Mick, said nothing only give excuses to Sandra. His wife is curious, on her husband behaviour.

After few weeks later, Mick arranged with his family for outing, He told them," Today, I am going to drive you guys out to "Amusement Park." Everyone was happy except Sandra, she knew something is wrong here. He tell his family to wait outside their mansion, he will come by and fetch them, Then a Luxury BMW X5 xDrive35i Premium come along, his family shock by surprised. Sandra knew he will do this by avoiding her advised.

While the family ride his new car, Sandra, asked him,"What happened to your Lexus and since when you bought your brand new car? He explained that, he trade in his Lexus, he want his family to be happy. Her wife, didn't speak to him since then.

Conclusion

What really happen to Sandra? Why wouldn't she speak to him? (I will leave your thoughts)

As for my point of view, Sandra, disheartened because of her husband behavior, maybe she doesn't need all this to be proud of, some lady doesn't care about luxury life because they already have it. All Sandra want is to have a respectful relationships and to built a good reputation for their children.

As for Mick, he didn't know why Sandra doesn't want to communicate with him? Is it because he doesn't care? All he want is to be better than the rest of people including his love one. He thought, what ever he do, it's for their own good. For his own perception, being be the best than the rest make him stronger and powerful. Eventually, his wrong by his own selfishness.

Being Jealous, is good to cultivate your ambitions, not by mislead to horrifying decisions to make others look miserable. Filling with jealousy, selfishiness will make others dislike and hindered you for unfortunate events. Avoiding jealousy and respecting others hardships, achievement and ambitions will make others feels securely likes you. The same having a relationships, jealousy will not make relationships stronger but make them difficult to understand each others. Respect other privacy, make them feel good for being themselves. Is what other people do, " Treat people, is how you want others people to treat you" The reflection is base on our behavior nothing is obsolete only us who can make the different.

Thank you for reading my article. Take care and have a great weekend..

Peace