Everybody speaking about New Year Resolutions. What is the defination of New Year Resolutions?
"A New Year's resolution is a commitment that a person makes to one or more lasting personal goals, projects, or the reforming of a habit. This goal must be reached by the next New Year. Keep in mind that this is a goal, not a wish and should be something that you as a person could strive for" Quote from wikipedia.
What is our aim for New Year? and is there any way we could progress our goal? Sometimes, we questioning our thoughts several times or everyday, whether we can achieve our goal?
Maybe yes or no, depending on our progress, which we need to put on our own afford. What if, we facing difficulties to achieve our goal? Should we hold on till we recoup our self or abandon our progres?
What if, we abandon or so called terminate our progress? What will it be? Just imagine you are in that senario, what will you do if anything goes wrong, whereby you couldn't put anymore energy?
Some people, attract nagative thought on their mind, telling them, "Just forget it, you couldn't do it anymore" This nagative reaction act on behalf of your body which control inner self emotion. What you says in your mind, your body activate the sensor of your veins. To control your body, we need to control our emotion, when we control our emotion, we control everything, e.g. heart, mind and souls.
How to control your emotion?
To control our emotion is to let go the fear, that prolong during our childhood or experiencing difficult times. That fear will result, negative reaction which means, you won't be able to differentiate between positive and negative. Whereby, we won't be able to freely balance our judgement. That's what people act negatively when someone unintentionally offended the person, whereby it trigger their negative thoughts. We don't know what is inside on person mind. If we could, we become famous alike Mind Freak or Professor Xavier..
Emotions, sometimes, can be harmful if we couldn't control it. Importantly, let go or loosen our negative thoughts, then our emotion (temper) declining. When we dominate our emotion, we could focus on our goal.
The second key to success, is to be patient..
During my school time, I always envy myself, I want to be number 1, and boasting to people, I am versatile can do everything. I join a lot of activities, like sports, art classes, science club, movies makers and martial arts. I do almost everything, I thought with this I could have more friends and be attracted to girls. I Impatiently trying my best to show them, that I am better than the rest of the mates. Which result failure!
Why I fail? Is because, I didn't focus and understand the definition of the activities that I participate. I just boast to my mates and the rest of the people in school. I had, the chance to improve myself, but I ignore it, I add in more egos. The more egos I put in, the more people will hindered me. I end up being infamous person in School.
What I learn from my childhood is to be patient and modest, focus one activity at a time. The more we participate the more burden we carry. The more friends you have the more you need to impress them. The whole scenario is not about boasting to others. When we fail to produce, everyone started to notify and gossip surround us. That's what make ourselves nervous and distress.
Live life without attracting negative, control emotion and be patient then we can plan our "New Year Resolution" without failing or abandon.
This world we living is a learning path, in order to improve, compile all that bad experience you had in the past and try to avoid it or maybe change in different method to avoid the same scenario. Things will come in handy without any harm.
The more experience you have, the more wiser you became, it doesn't matter if you make small or big mistake in your life, because when we did mistake we learned. Everyone will encounter bad experience during younger or mid age. They will face problems and difficulties. Otherwise we won't learn or be inhuman. Everyone will face problem whether we like it or not we to need accept and avoid occurrence in future.
"Always be happy what you have and who you are, importantly, try to adjust or suit the environment which you can afford. Don't force yourself, it will only increase negative thoughts."
I hope everyone, will have a Positive New Year Resolutions and never get carried away if we couldn't achieve, the best way, tried other things which you can afford to progress, maybe in future, you'll appreciated and satisfied what you achieve.
I wish everyone, have a Happy New Year and Good Luck with your New Year Resolutions.
Peace & Love
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