Hello Beautiful..

Hello Beautiful...!!! from good friend of mine, Mr Montree..

His from Thailand, even though his English not that clear but he has a golden heart which I admired. He has 2 boys which he's spoken everyday, he love his wife and two kids, even though he separated from his family by distance, nevertheless his heart are closes to them.

Being a foreign in different country is not that easy to adapt, whereby everyday he wish, he could go back to his homeland and be closer to his love ones. Working in foreign country is a big risk, where else his wife is apart from him. Just imagine, if there's any problem at home which your wife couldn't solve, who to look for and how to manage the scenario? His wife have to make a big decision and take responsibilities, whereby she know that her husband is away, she's has to be mentally prepared to manage her household and take care of everything.

Montree understand that his wife and children is far from distance, but doesn't stop him to work hard everyday from 8 am to 10pm even in Weekend, he continue to works  in order for him to get sufficient fund to support his family. His attitude "Never Says Die" is inspiring to those who appreciate life and commitment to their family.

He been working in Singapore for almost 18years now, every 12 past months lunar calender, he will return to his homeland for 3 weeks to spend time with his family and help to repaired some damages at home. However, the unfortunate part, he couldn't take longer leave due to his work, his employer persist him to comeback and work for them like a slave. I just couldn't imagine the hard work he does to the company, but it seems doesn't matter to them. All they know, he wants him back and work. Apparently, the whole 3 weeks is not enough for him to spend time with his family is like going for holiday.

As soon he know the time for family is over, he return back to his employer. For his perception, as long his family have sufficient fund to manage household and send kids to school, is good enough. His sacrifice for his family is a big tasked for him, I am sure, he should be proud of it.

When we love our family, we have to do everything we can to provide them a good living, even how bad or how hard the situation is, we must remind ourselves, what we do for our family is a big sacrifice and that sacrifice is worthy.

One day, his children will analyst how his father sacrifice for his family, the respect and encouragement will make them mature. Nowadays metropolis children doesn't understand what life means to them, enjoyed, spending and rebellious towards their parents is stall in their mind. They been exposed to materialistic world which they don't even know what is hardships. When they grow older, they have difficulties to adapt the real world. Their immature thoughts made them vulnerable. As a parent, we should encourage our children and explained the real scenario about life and facts. Gradually, they will become mature and ready to face any obstacle with their parents guardians.

After work or during his tea break, Montree call his wife everyday, is like a routine job for him. Sometimes he receive call from his kids during their free time. His kids, delightful to hear his dad voice, for them is enough even they seldom see each other, the good factor, is like being fill with joy and happiness.

Being happy is everyone forte, no matter how rich you are or how poor you can be, being happy is part of our life, some people living in luxury life, thought they can buy money with happiness, even though they have thousand of friends, they can't even feel the happiness. They drink alcohol, enjoyed life, spend luxury things and so on.. No matter how hard they spend, they cannot buy happiness.

Being happy, is by giving and receiving love from those close to you, happiness is built from inner-self the more we give the more we happy, give doesn't mean buying gifts to someone, give means by producing your afford to support them in any ways, like sharing your wealth, give a helping hand to those who need it the most. Then the happiness, will come by itself.

Look for example like Montree, he work everyday from morning till night and only receive $1200 per month. For him, supporting his family is all matter, he doesn't complaint or rebel to his employer, all he knew is to support his family. He work hard everyday, in his inner feelings, he's a happy man, even he has no resting day for the entire year, for him, his family is priority.

There are thousand of men and women I encounter, they have similarity to Montree life but as a good friend of his, I am admired his attitude  and how he managed his life by not letting his family and friends down, he always tried to morally support and giving advise not to give up hope to those you love.

This article base on the true story and I dedicate this article to Montree and his family..

Montree, Me and Sawan

I hope you enjoyed reading my article, wishing to all christian friends and for those who followed my Life Journal have a "Wonderful Merry Christmas" and a "Happy New Year"...

 

Peace and Love