Living In Fear

Most of us sometime asked ourselves whether are we living in fear...???

What is fear got to do with us? Is it related to losing our relationships, work, capital, etc.?

Fearing is referring to lost of confident bout themselves, not only that it makes us being vulnerable and vulnerable would not get us anywhere in this world, only declining..

Ethnically, fear is where we start to realizing ourselves from the stage whereby we are standing in the middle of cross road. Should we start realizing immediately or hit by the enormous train? Is always depending the person who they carry themselves in that situations.

Just like Jimmy's," he fearing of being lonely, Maybe he thinks, his loneliness overshadow for not being love by anyone. He was a married man with two children but unfortunately they don't have feeling for each other, so he re-married with other woman. Again, the feeling with his current wife is not there, so he initially find other women to cover his fear of being lonely. According to theory, Is not practical at all as he know himself, his not lonely only fearing to be alone.

Some says, "Jimmy's doesn't know how to appreciate what he has, he wants more in order to fill his desire and satisfying his lust.

I couldn't agree more, but what if he is really lonely and need someone to really love him? Which means, nobody understand his situations? Judging someone can always make ourselves mix feelings by constantly stir other person life without investigate his whole stories.

According to his history, his first wife is a wonderful woman, they married for almost 15years but things are not getting their way, is like unparalleled thoughts so they decided to divorce. Both of them move on without thinking bout their children feelings, which they vow to love, to cherish and devoted for better or worst with each other in terms of their solemnize day.

What happen to those vow and promises during their wonderful marriage? Is it because both of them unhappy or just realized they are not meant to be together? There's always a mistake in relationships that we couldn't hide or ignore, tell the truth bout how we feels from within and let go the heat that store for so long, in conceptual, they have a chance to recoup their good factors for each other again.

Jimmy's move on and found someone nice and he thought falling in love with this woman will make his loneliness disappeared, they get down and he decided get married for the second time. They have a wonderful years together, falling in love, shared thoughts and all the trouble inside of him slowly faded. Than one fine day, his wife started to show her true color and he begins to wonder if his the one who is being wrong here or his wife exposed to much of her characters? Only he know. So he started to fear and feel lonely as before.

He begins to search other women to fill his emptiness and try to persuade her to fall in love with him. He studied her weakness and maybe one day it might come in handy during the second date. He pretend to understand her and tell the secret of his life, but would a person will tell a women who they really are before intimacy? That the secret which nobody knew only they themselves.

45% after marriage, a men cheated on his wife for another women due to lack of intimacy and communications. Most men, who fail to have best mate ended up sleeping with other women, and women should understand men more if they want to save their marriage. Speak well with each other and be truthful to themselves not just pretend that everything is alright.

No point having a relationships who did not appreciate each other or pretend to be appreciated, it will only wreck each other feelings if they find out. Don't meddle your relationships embrace it like your last day on this earth.

Nobody living alone in this world, only we are the one who creating our own loneliness, we avoid of accepting the facts. People who living in fear will not get anywhere, only fill with their heart with emptiness. Embrace the one you love, cherish it with tender loving care, and be proud for the one you vow. We only live ones and the best to accept the one you love.

Don't let your decision fool you, every person have their own personality, try to adapted their characters and extract out the fear that controlling your mind.

For Jimmy's he should learn to be grateful for what he has, not by living in fear. He should find a solutions for his family not added in more relationships, if he continue to manipulate his mind, the only thing he will face, is the same old problem whereby he won't able to be happy due by his fear that conquer his mind...

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