The Perceptions..

19th January 2011,

On this very day, I was having my afternoon tea break nearby Bedok ESSO petrol stations. Suddenly a man from nowhere came to me and asked; do you know where is Jurong? I told him; Is at the west side of Singapore, which you need to take bus no. 30 from Bedok central bus terminal. Than he says to me," are you Malaysian? I say, Hell No! Why? He reply; never mind, I will walked. Then he really walked straight to the direction I shown him earlier. What a strange man, maybe he desperately need money? I guess so?

Anyway, he shouldn't come to Singapore at the first place, because; he wouldn't thought, he might not or won't have sufficient money for his transport back to Malaysia. I'm pity on him though.

Yesterday, during my night class. Me and my classmate sharing problems at workplace, he facing torrid time at his department, being negatively with his subordinate or working colleague. We facing a similar problems but usually, I won't complaint bout others because, maybe their characters are meant to be asshole. I guess?

Basically, non of these people have the same perception as others, each individual consist different mindset and thoughts. We couldn't read their thoughts, unless we have special powers to listen people thought, that would be marvelous.. isn't it? You read your boss thoughts and reply, YES BOSS, NO NEED TO EXPLAINED I UNDERSTAND YOU BOSS... surely, the boss freak out.. he definitely says; BLOODY HELL, HOW COME HE KNOW SO MUCH ABOUT IT...

Interesting, Yes?

Normally, people will read human character is by looking at their body posture and facial reaction. Non of us in this world can read people thoughts, unless, his freaking mutant, like Xavier the X-Man.

Anyway, my classmate feel he being bullied by his own colleague because he's new to this job, he think negatively on others by creating his own illusion of being different. What his colleague perceptions is guiding him different to his own job activities but instead he refuse to listened and ignore their offer. His philosophy, better to be specialist in one thing and neglect other things.

For my perception, is best to learn two ways or multiple ways in order to increase knowledge in others activities. However he may choose a various kind of jobs offers when it comes upon, which is suited him the most, otherwise he may choose to stayed at his current positions. There's always optional in life, but then again, is how we managed it.

Unlikely, he wouldn't accept others people opinion on his problem. Because he wanted people to listen and empathy in his situation. Most of us, choose to be Superhero and save the day. In fact, this people don't need a superhero to save his day. Only by listening and understand his feelings is enough for him to get his confident back on track. Every human being has his own weaker and stronger part of mind, if he fail, you can see the trembling effect shaking up his life.

Initially, those problem can be solve by using positive mythology. How it works? every individual has their own special ways to overcome negative effect whereas we encounter, collect all negative thoughts and convert it into positive thoughts. Then you will witness the significant changes on the mindset.

e.g. Linda having a bad day at work her boss scolded her for being careless by wrongly doing her job task, she feel despondent with her boss reaction, during lunch hours her colleague come to her and wanted to seat beside her and have a lunch together but instead she refuse to accept the offer, her colleague was shock with her respond and they says negative behind her back. When she return home, her family wanted her to cook dinner for them, but they notice her looks so sad and unhappy. Yet she ignore her family and went straight to her room and gone to bed, she crying the whole night as her thought saying, nobody cares.

What makes Linda pain? Linda feel she being toucher by her thoughts.

What if Linda, changed things into positive thoughts?

e.g. Linda having a bad day at work, even though she having a bad day at work because of silly mistake that make her boss scolded her, she trying to see different point of view by understand what's the problem she facing at the moment. She analysis it and make them into positive thoughts by rectify the problem, even though her boss scolded her, she apologies and make things better. Her colleague saw her smiling face they thought she's happy and they talked to her in cheerful ways, went she return home with positive thoughts, her family too followed the same ways as her, yet she can make a special dinner for them and go to sleep in peacefully.

Why she feel the changes? because she think positive and when she feel positive everything will followed positively and when she feel negative, she'll face the same thing all over again.

Importantly, is to set the perception in right direction otherwise, it will go wrong direction to negative reaction and it's very hard to adjust our thoughts to regain our positive reaction.

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Take care and Peace upon you..