Ground Level..

23rd January 2011,

Sunday, is the best day of the weekend, most people will strolled down the beach, having picnic and chilling with family and friends. Unlike others, some people have to work on Sunday which they says, "Why the hell I'm working on Sunday, which I supposed to be at home with my family". In this modern days, working in Sunday is very common. Some do have extra money and some don't. Like David? He likes working on Sunday, because? he'll get double pay. David's says; "Wow.. Liao.. Sunday, working? happy happy, can get more money.. OooHooo.. can buy Xbox 360... Yeah..!!!) Yes Yeah...!!!

Beside David's, some people don't care about Sunday, like Martin's, Martin says; "Fuhh.. what good about Sunday, for me everyday the same.. nothing special about Sunday.. only an idiot who think Sunday is great"... Yes, Some do think Sunday is common day, the same as yesterday. But if we analyzed, people from all over the World love Sunday's. Why? Sunday is to rejuvenate, distress our past and make complexity on ourselves. So that, we can move on without fatigue or bring forward the previous stressed.

Anyway, I would like to shared regarding on "Ground level". What is ground level? Most people thought, the ground level is ground that level.. hhmm.. maybe..

Actually, most people will start from ground level, is indicate how we will start from scratch and begin to see the light from the end of the tunnel.

Is important to build a rigid ground or so call foundation before we start our journey other wise, we end up falling again if we not cautiously plan our journey. What we going to do? we always need a plan. Before we build a house, we need a plan; before we travel; we need to plan where to go and before we married, we need a plan, when is the best time for marriage. So, we need to make sure we start from the ground level and make a proper planing. Some plan doesn't work due to miss calculate, lack of ideas, no checklist, and etc etc.

What we like to do in our life is to be able to do in the right directions, when we make mistake we seldom blame ourselves for our mistake only accused people for disrupting their planning. Which is absolutely nonsense.

When people make a proper planing we need to analyze the possibilities, and what if something goes wrong direction, could we capitalize and disallowed reoccurring again?

This what we call, being organised and planing ahead or foreseen the future.

We all respect any individual thoughts and idea, every ideas is good, only how we going to put it or organised it with prospect. Human being conceive 1000 ideas! just give a thought? When we are child, we always finding a object to make it like toys which isn't a toy, we intent to make it like it was a toy with imagination figure, like robot toaster, pencil monster and so on.. we always makes new idea out of the ordinary to extraordinary from our own eyes and ideas.

When we grew up as a teenager, we intent to be Super Model, or Superstar or being cool. For being the way we want, is try to find an idea to make it cool, even though is not cool but we almost there for being cool. We changed colors of our hair, shoes, bags and etc. We use our idea to make it more cooler than before, so people will stare at us and show how cool we are but eventually, nobody cares, because everybody wants to be cooler than you. In effective way, we try to changed things that nobody will dare to do, like wearing a under wear from outside. Than people will notice how cool you are...

When we grew older, an adult, we usually, find something useful, like investing, find new girlfriend, be rich, going out with junkies and so on. We intent to use our ideas to be innovative, in order to get big money, money is what adult craving, they need money to survive, in order to survive, need an idea how to make profit and show boss you are the right for this job.

Using Idea is common for us all, is not surprised that we start from child to adult. Use Idea to make a better living is the best way, to earn our own respect. Some people use their intelligent idea to destroy other people life and their life. It been there for many century till now, the only things that can changed their life is the environment.

The best option is to start from ground level and from there, we aim our targets, no matter where we point it, we will get there without a doubt. importantly build a solid foundation, and I'm surely we will have our chance to become success.

Is time for me to end here till than, Thank you for reading my article. I will write more story later.

Take care and enjoyed your Sunday..

The Perceptions..

19th January 2011,

On this very day, I was having my afternoon tea break nearby Bedok ESSO petrol stations. Suddenly a man from nowhere came to me and asked; do you know where is Jurong? I told him; Is at the west side of Singapore, which you need to take bus no. 30 from Bedok central bus terminal. Than he says to me," are you Malaysian? I say, Hell No! Why? He reply; never mind, I will walked. Then he really walked straight to the direction I shown him earlier. What a strange man, maybe he desperately need money? I guess so?

Anyway, he shouldn't come to Singapore at the first place, because; he wouldn't thought, he might not or won't have sufficient money for his transport back to Malaysia. I'm pity on him though.

Yesterday, during my night class. Me and my classmate sharing problems at workplace, he facing torrid time at his department, being negatively with his subordinate or working colleague. We facing a similar problems but usually, I won't complaint bout others because, maybe their characters are meant to be asshole. I guess?

Basically, non of these people have the same perception as others, each individual consist different mindset and thoughts. We couldn't read their thoughts, unless we have special powers to listen people thought, that would be marvelous.. isn't it? You read your boss thoughts and reply, YES BOSS, NO NEED TO EXPLAINED I UNDERSTAND YOU BOSS... surely, the boss freak out.. he definitely says; BLOODY HELL, HOW COME HE KNOW SO MUCH ABOUT IT...

Interesting, Yes?

Normally, people will read human character is by looking at their body posture and facial reaction. Non of us in this world can read people thoughts, unless, his freaking mutant, like Xavier the X-Man.

Anyway, my classmate feel he being bullied by his own colleague because he's new to this job, he think negatively on others by creating his own illusion of being different. What his colleague perceptions is guiding him different to his own job activities but instead he refuse to listened and ignore their offer. His philosophy, better to be specialist in one thing and neglect other things.

For my perception, is best to learn two ways or multiple ways in order to increase knowledge in others activities. However he may choose a various kind of jobs offers when it comes upon, which is suited him the most, otherwise he may choose to stayed at his current positions. There's always optional in life, but then again, is how we managed it.

Unlikely, he wouldn't accept others people opinion on his problem. Because he wanted people to listen and empathy in his situation. Most of us, choose to be Superhero and save the day. In fact, this people don't need a superhero to save his day. Only by listening and understand his feelings is enough for him to get his confident back on track. Every human being has his own weaker and stronger part of mind, if he fail, you can see the trembling effect shaking up his life.

Initially, those problem can be solve by using positive mythology. How it works? every individual has their own special ways to overcome negative effect whereas we encounter, collect all negative thoughts and convert it into positive thoughts. Then you will witness the significant changes on the mindset.

e.g. Linda having a bad day at work her boss scolded her for being careless by wrongly doing her job task, she feel despondent with her boss reaction, during lunch hours her colleague come to her and wanted to seat beside her and have a lunch together but instead she refuse to accept the offer, her colleague was shock with her respond and they says negative behind her back. When she return home, her family wanted her to cook dinner for them, but they notice her looks so sad and unhappy. Yet she ignore her family and went straight to her room and gone to bed, she crying the whole night as her thought saying, nobody cares.

What makes Linda pain? Linda feel she being toucher by her thoughts.

What if Linda, changed things into positive thoughts?

e.g. Linda having a bad day at work, even though she having a bad day at work because of silly mistake that make her boss scolded her, she trying to see different point of view by understand what's the problem she facing at the moment. She analysis it and make them into positive thoughts by rectify the problem, even though her boss scolded her, she apologies and make things better. Her colleague saw her smiling face they thought she's happy and they talked to her in cheerful ways, went she return home with positive thoughts, her family too followed the same ways as her, yet she can make a special dinner for them and go to sleep in peacefully.

Why she feel the changes? because she think positive and when she feel positive everything will followed positively and when she feel negative, she'll face the same thing all over again.

Importantly, is to set the perception in right direction otherwise, it will go wrong direction to negative reaction and it's very hard to adjust our thoughts to regain our positive reaction.

Anyway, thank you for reading my blog and I hope you enjoyed reading it..

Please send me a comment if you have any. Thanks

Take care and Peace upon you..

Gratitude!

17th January 2011,

I had a conversation with my co worker, his a oriented person.

Throughout our conversations, we stress out regarding lack of increment? feel moody during working hours, happy after working hours, defy superior instruction, low morale because of lack of increment and etc etc.

This happen to most workplace, which ever company we go, we facing the same problem, whether our own worker, subordinate, mid management or top management.

They all want something from us and we want something from them, either way round.

Is so obvious, which we can't deny. When we climb up to the top of the higher mountain, we can

see beautiful view, beautiful scenery, beautiful in everything within our eyes.

The same to the top management, mid management and so on..

I agreed to some degree with my co worker, sometimes, lower rank should give opportunity

to shine and opportunity to show the top management or mid management what they can offer

to improve the company.

Initially, we can't force the management to agree it instantly, they too facing other bigger

responsibilities. They always says, we need to analyze, and see if we can fit it into our criteria. Which I call "KIV". Do first, talk later..

Than what happen to the lower rank? they quit their job and find greener posture.

This happen to most companies. They intend to be bias at certain point, because they never

listened to lower ranks. (Give us feedback and we'll see what we can do for you) common

words for management.

Most of us wanted a perfect jobs which fit our criteria, what happen to the gratitude? where the

gratitude gone?

For example Tom:

Tom's went for interview, wearing smartly clothes and talk nicely to the interviewer.

Tom intend to be confident and promote himself with highly rated CV.

After successful interview, Tom went out, his thought started to recall what has happen just

now. Afterwards he wish, that he will get the job, and give everything no matter what the

outcome.

Meanwhile, the human resource call Tom, saying he been selected", welcome aboard to our great

company, explain the HR. He excited, jump like crazy, and celebrate with family and friends..

First day of work full of energy and enthusiasm, striving to proved he worthy to this great

company.

3 months later, still trying to proved he worthy to this great company..

After confirmation, still trying to proved he worthy to this great company...

6 months later, he just trying to proved he worthy to this great company..

Than 1 year later, he nothing to proved to this great company..

Because, Tom's immune to the task and get bored with the same systems everyday, he try

to search for a job, finding to spice up in his boring life, hoping a miracle will come to him...

What happen next to Tom's ? the same cycle, all over again...

Nothing will never changed, if we don't turn ourselves around, for e.g. find what will improve

our living, maybe take some courses, recommend new activities, join sports, join company volunteer community service, humping with co workers..(kidding), be community chairman

and etc etc

Sooner or later, the management will see the impact we have make, than probably, they realised

is time for us to get promotion.

Always, point at one directions and we will see significant changes in our life..

What we learn from the nutshell? Always be gratitude to those who give us jobs and some

others still jobless.. like Tom...

Thank you for reading my article..

Take care for now..and have a great day..

The day I was born.. that was 11 January 1978

Is been a while, I have not followed up my blog. Blogging is good for sharing inner thoughts or emotion thoughts. Likewise, nothing can be firm as long we stayed firm.

Oh yes, today is the 17th January 2011, I turn 33yrs old since 6 days ago. It was alright to turn old aged but my biggest concern, what is the next step for my life journey?

I believe everyone, has plan after they turn one year older, maybe buy a car, house, get married, have children, be a millionaire and etc etc. What if, the plan doesnt work out? Will we stop there to prevent it from happening?

Some people I seen, give up everything what they believe and do, they believed things won't happen if Mr Roy doesn't distrupt his work. Blaming others for not reaching thier target finding fault from others for their failured, which is unjust.

To achieved something in life, we have to blame ourself for not putting any effort, give the extra miles and decline attitude. This is what happen if we simply give up on what we believe. Believe is what we need to boost our confident and positive reaction towards everything you do..

Believe in yourself, is like loving yourself. This what ppl lacking, wining mean everything but produce result is something we achieve. The best way to describe, you create your own winning mentality and place it on trophy room. (that is in your memories)

So, what we learn here, everytime we get older, we always want to changed things for better, furthermore, I be gladly to answer your question if you got something in your mind. you can contact me via kornez@gmail.com

Take care for now..