Loved or being in Love..

During our younger days in high school or undergrad, we may fall in love or have a crush with someone whom we admired. Is not easy to exposed our feeling towards the person we admired. Most of us think, "Is impossible, she may reject me? and doesn't want to end up feel miserable and hide under the blanket.

In reality checked. We may feel ashamed to express our feelings but it doesn't mean we can't tried at all. Is about courage and dignity. Some may think our appearance or our status is not suitable for the girl we admired and probably she too beautiful for me that I can't look at her eyes but I only can see her boobies..

Nevertheless, is about how you talked with confidence. Some girl feel the same way too, feel shy or speechless with the guy she admired. Most girls have their own fantasy, she also has their own criteria, which they keep by themselves. Most guys doesn't know what really girls want till they find out themselves by having relationships with her. Most girls won't exposed their character immediately till they trusted that guy.

"Love can superseded if they found someone whom match their criteria."

Unfortunately they don't realized what love means to a person, till they deeply found out that the person isn't what they expected to be. Love can link to several criteria. It depend on how we want to adverse it.

Life can be good if we accept the person whom they are, not what they have to offer. Probably in few years they may end up find other person whom they can connected too. Choose whom has same interested, which you feel comfortable. But there's always a cons towards the end. How we going to overcome it? "Adapt and accept their personalities unless bad habit such as alcoholic or drags addict then is exceptional, this kind of person need send special intensive care. For them to revive from depression.

Some girls prefer a bad ass guy, for them, they are very exciting and slightly different, mostly relate to beautiful girls who get bored with nice guys, due to, to much attention, they want something new, they want adventure, mystery and romance because they are young and they need something to excite them. Once they get all this experience of excitement, they will definitely will give you her love.


"The pros, you no need to be a millionaire or superstar, just be a person she want you to be that can excite them"

"The cons, don't ever try something stupid which lead the girl hate you by judging or forcing them"

 

The other thing I need to emphasise about girls, during their mid twenties, their mentality may not be the same as teenager, because they want someone whom they can depend on, a little fantasy should not be a problem because the want to feel the same during their younger years.

In General not all girls the same some don't even thought of having relationships, some are les.. you know what I mean, some want friendship before they can commit, some immediate throw their love to you (This girls need to be aware of) and some take few years to realized his the one. It depend whom your admired even she quite disturbing, try to understand them and don't let your moral down if they girl reject or ignore you, give yourself a boost by applauding for what you have done and achieve.

Importantly, let the love lead the way, either you in loved or being in love.. good times, will comes ahead without you noticing it.